Cougars are intelligent, wise and worldly. If you cannot carry a conversation and teach the cougar something new, do not enter this phenomenon. Read the newspaper and make sure you know what you are talking about or she will chew you up and spit you out.
Whether it’s just sex or a long-term relationship, knowing what you want will help you figure out your best course of action to get it. It’s also important to be honest with the woman about what you want — don’t act like you want a relationship if all you want is sex.