Attraction

Put simply, a cougar is an older women who seeks a relationship or sex with men who are significantly younger than them.

Traditionally this meant women in about their 40s dating men 10 to 20 years their junior.

Whether it’s just sex or a long-term relationship, knowing what you want will help you figure out your best course of action to get it. It’s also important to be honest with the woman about what you want — don’t act like you want a relationship if all you want is sex.